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Broken Hearts - Family Decline and the Outcomes for Society by Jill Kirby
Jill Kirby's paper exposes our national ambivalence about marriage, the family and the need to build "social capital". The overwhelming majority of us still want to marry and social scientists from the left and the right confirm that, on every measurement, children are more likely to flourish when brought up by their biological parents ideally living as husband and wife. Yet, paradoxically, this national consensus has not given rise to either a national pro-family movement or cross party consensus on policies to support the family.
Anyone reading this paper will be compelled by the evidence to conclude that this situation cannot be allowed to continue. Building on her knowledge as the former Chairman of Full Time Mothers Jill Kirby succinctly provides easily understood information about marriage, the family and outcomes for children.
he well-documented statistics contained in the paper chart the reduction in marriages and the increase in divorce and in the number of children born outside marriage. They show that there has been a corresponding increase in the number of single parent families, teenage mothers and, very worryingly, in damaged children.
Marriage, as evidence in the paper demonstrates, is not just important for children's outcomes. It is also associated with a better quality of life for adults too, being linked to better health, work prospects and emotional well being.
This paper challenges our national complacency in failing to promote and defend marriage and the family. Other liberal democracies such as State and Federal Governments in America and the Australian Federal Government are successfully developing policies which support the family and the same is true of most European Countries and there is growing evidence that these policies work.
In the words of Jill Kirby: "The nurture of children should be a primary objective of every civilised society. The perverse consequence of our fiscal, social and welfare policies has been to incentivise and institutionalise child neglect. It is time for a new approach"
For a copy of "Broken Hearts" (£7.50) contact the Centre for Policy Studies, 57 Tufton Street, London SW1P 3QL. Tel: 020 7222 4488 www.cps.org.uk